THE SEVEN NECESSARY SINS FOR WOMEN AND GIRLS. 1. ANGER: You must be very angry at patriarchy. 2. ATTENTION: Command attention, you deserve it. 3. PROFANITY: You should freely say “fuck.” 4. AMBITION: Take up space and own it. 5. POWER: Aspire to have it. 6. VIOLENCE: Do not hesitate to choose vawulence. 7. LUST: […]
FOR FEMININITY, ANGER IS NECESSARY! Read More »
Humans have a very weird relationship with money and women’s bodies and this is how. Humans woke up one day, decided to give pieces of papers values and categorized people as “rich” or “poor” based on the amount of these pieces of paper they have. Calling money “pieces of paper” has stripped money of
Oftentimes, I have wondered if societal constructs are stifling or are much needed to create order in our society. I have wondered if the advantages of these constructs outweigh their disadvantages? And that’s just by the way. The main focus on which I will like to zoom in my lens are three different versions
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2023 ELECTIONS: ARE WOMEN ‘TOO’ EMOTIONAL TO RULE NIGERIA? I will answer this question from the psychological perspective, social perspective and the scientific perspective in a random order blended together to give off a sweet savour or a malodorous stench that will almost choke you to death depending on whether you discriminate on the
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Peter Obi‘s supporters dragged Sowore when he released his WASSCE results and I laughed and enjoyed every bit of it. I am absolutely not a fan of Peter Obi either; they’re birds of a feather, one is only more popular because he’s not trying to play both sides like his counterpart masquerading like he’s a
HOW POLITICIANS USE SURVIVAL TO CONTROL US (THOUGHTS ON PETER OBI AND SOWORE) Read More »
I’m glad that my happiness is not dependent on how one person uses their genitals sha. I remember those darks days when I would literally lose my mind just on the suspicion or confirmation that someone was “cheating” on me. Cheating kwa. Is it MY genital? How can it be called
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I used to go to this church when I was in part one in the university. I liked the church because it was youth-based and I got to dance, the choir was fire. One day, the pastor said a lot of young folks were afraid of marriage and if we belonged to that category,
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Sex is a BASIC need, like food, water and shelter. These things should be FREE. After that familiar post-coital calm, I told this person no wonder men get mad that they have to pay for something this nice before they can access it. I mean, I feel really calm and happy right now!
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Normally, I’m all love and light but I need to get something off my chest. Yesterday, I watched a movie that showed how conversion therapy ‘works‘. As a demisexual LGBTQIA+ ally, I found this movie very disturbing. I’d like to say a few things and correct a few ideas. And I would sound very
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As an African woman and as a feminist, I’ve always been wary of Pan-Africanists and the reason being that many times, I have been tackled by these male Pan-Africanists telling me countless times that feminism is a western culture and I should stop spreading feminist ideas to corrupt “our women”. (Like women are their properties
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