What I’m about to write is most likely going to make you mad almost to the point of wanting to unalive me. That crazed blind anger you feel towards people you don’t even know as if they have hurt you or other people for cheating, when indeed they have NOT. The anger has […]
THE INSANITY OF ROMANTIC OWNERSHIP Read More »
Pre-script: Since I got back to writing about feminism again, I have really learnt how to have hard conversations. It sometimes feel like walking on eggshells, but I think as humans we have to learn to walk on eggshells and break those figurative eggshells to be better humans and to get out of our artificial
BETWEEN DECENTERING MEN AND HATING MEN (2) Read More »
I got a message yesterday that mother went to this popular ”family drama” radio station in Ibadan to report that I’ve stopped taking her calls or that of any other family members. In six years, she called me ONCE after a year or so. The last time I saw her was late 2019 which means
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From 30, it has been changed to 33+ women. Before, the society would tell women at 30 their lives are over. We are old cargoes. We’re shriveled. Nobody wants us et cetera. NOW, it has been shifted to 33+ 🤣 Mais pourquoi ? Thank you mighty kings for giving us more
ARE OLDER WOMEN CRIMINALS? Read More »
The recent reports of 150 female inmates in the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC) being raped and burned to death are not just a tragedy – they are grotesque manifestations of the global pandemic of misogyny. This act of unspeakable violence is not an anomaly. It is the logical endpoint of a world that
Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU) has long been celebrated for its staunch commitment to freedom of expression. Over the years, Great Ife students have vigilantly upheld this principle through steadfast resistance against any encroachments on their freedom of expression. With the growing and recurring stabs to the historical prestige of this great citadel of learning
OAU ICT CENTER: AN HISBAH POLICE STATION Read More »
Beyond hot takes and joining trending conversations, it is important that we draw sober lessons from this collective experience, not out superiority or vindictiveness, but out of empathy and equality. 1. Love is not continual sacrifice by one person. Don’t normalize pain. Suffering is not a virtue. Endurance is not a virtue. Your freedom
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When I was with this guy as a teenager/in my early twenties, where I drew the line was he hitting me. He never did hit me, but he messed me up on so many fronts. He messed up my self esteem, he manipulated me, he gaslit me into thinking I was crazy and undesirable, he
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Today is day 100 for me in France and I have moved three times. Y’know many times, I’ve asked why life just has to be so dramatic but recently, I’ve started realizing my life isn’t extraordinarily dramatic. It is just that we have created a fragmented society, both emotionally and socially, that it’s considered
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This book contains raw passion, unfiltered anger, and a daring boldness at the gross injustice of enslaving women with their own bodies! Are you curious about anything related to abortion? Are you sexually active? Do you have a sense of justice? Do you hate being told what you can and cannot
I HAD FOUR ABORTIONS, ÓYÁ ARREST ME! Read More »