When we hear the word consent, most people immediately think of sexual relationships. While it’s necessary to talk about consent in that regard, we often look past the fact that consent goes far beyond the bedroom. In reality, consent is deeply political. It is a valuable tool in how our societies function—or fail. In Nigeria […]
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Christian to the flow (floor) like I can’t give the devil time of day by Glorilla in ‘In My Bag,” by FLO ft Glorilla Religious queers, who or what are they? To me, they’re queer people with religious affiliations to Christianity, Islam, or any other religion. It’s not much of a secret that most
Religious Queers: An Oxymoron or Unexpected Synthesis Read More »
When I was with this guy as a teenager/in my early twenties, where I drew the line was he hitting me. He never did hit me, but he messed me up on so many fronts. He messed up my self esteem, he manipulated me, he gaslit me into thinking I was crazy and undesirable, he
I DON’T BELONG TO THE BITS AND PIECES OF THE WORLD Read More »
This book contains raw passion, unfiltered anger, and a daring boldness at the gross injustice of enslaving women with their own bodies! Are you curious about anything related to abortion? Are you sexually active? Do you have a sense of justice? Do you hate being told what you can and cannot
I HAD FOUR ABORTIONS, ÓYÁ ARREST ME! Read More »
There was a friend I had in secondary school between JSS1 and JSS2. She was tall and definitely “did not look like a woman.” She looked very strong, sinewy, tough and would have been more muscular if she went to the gym. She was VERY fast on the field where we played during break time
That anomalies exist means ‘gender=reproductive system’ isn’t as neat a definition as bioessentialists claim. It means that a woman may be someone who may have XX chromosomes but be missing core reproductive organs. It means it may someone who has some female internal organs but doesn’t have a vagina. It means it may be someone
Normally, I’m all love and light but I need to get something off my chest. Yesterday, I watched a movie that showed how conversion therapy ‘works‘. As a demisexual LGBTQIA+ ally, I found this movie very disturbing. I’d like to say a few things and correct a few ideas. And I would sound very
FUCK CONVERSION THERAPY! THE TRUTH ABOUT THE SEXUAL ‘MINORITIES’ Read More »