I can only draw one conclusion for people who hound others to get married; and it is that they have never been lucky enough to be happy. Their lives have been so full of misery; so much that they believe happiness can only be got with another person yoked to them by the government. […]
MARRIAGE ISN’T ALL THAT Read More »
There was a friend I had in secondary school between JSS1 and JSS2. She was tall and definitely “did not look like a woman.” She looked very strong, sinewy, tough and would have been more muscular if she went to the gym. She was VERY fast on the field where we played during break time
A girl once asked why I was irreligious. I can’t remember exactly how that question was asked, but I remember my answer. I admitted I didn’t know everything. I admitted that there have been a lot of questions and personal experiences I didn’t have answers to, that even science cannot explain. But that I
NOTHING IS BLACK & WHITE Read More »
I read about an Instagram model that was ready to file a lawsuit against Aubrey Drake Graham, a Canadian rapper, singer, and actor who allegedly had poured hot pepper in a condom after use to kill the sperm. She (the model) went to the bathroom to take some sperm for her use only to feel
THOUGHTS ON ABORTION IN NIGERIA Read More »
I desperately wanted to join a cult, any cult, in part one. I’ve had my share of unfairness and injustice but nobody or nothing else made me want to join a cult group as much as the woman who gave birth to me. I wanted to see her get the same treatment she meted
INJUSTICE FOR MOHBAD Read More »
Conversations around women’s bodies and the idea of the ‘perfect victim’. … Last week Sunday, a medical students’ association WhatsApp group I am on had a discussion about a video of a young woman who on dressing “indecently” was harassed by a group of men while one guy tried fending off her harassors and she
WOMEN CAN WEAR WHATEVER THEY WANT Read More »
I have kissed many frogs in my life and while kissing them, I didn’t even know they were frogs. I was genuinely not aware, I thought there weren’t anything else to kiss, asides frogs. I really didn’t know anything about boys because my grandmother asked me to stay away from them, at least until I
EVERYBODY HATES SIMPS (1) Read More »
Is it the proverbial butterfly in your stomach? Making you giddy, breathless, and losing all sense of reason? Is it that which makes you smile like an idiot for just about any reason? How do we define this feeling that can make you a saint or the vilest person to ever walk this earth? What
CALL FOR FEMINIST WRITERS! ✨🌟 FigureFeminists.com is excited to invite passionate feminist writers (irrespective of your gender identity) to contribute to our International Women’s Day initiative! We’re seeking critical commentaries (1500+ words) from a pro-sexual rights perspective on one of the following ten crucial topics (and each category attracts a #10,000 cash prize for
WOMEN’S SEXUAL RIGHTS INCLUSION WRITING CONTEST Read More »
Heterosexual men have been taught and learned to depend on women to help them express their emotions. Many of us are unable to feel emotionally alive except through relationships with women. Perfect breeding for codependency & one of the reasons patriarchy loves women submitting. We use women to validate our masculinity and that contributes