Osinachi‘s husband has been sentenced to death. The man who unalived Bamishe has also been sentenced to death. While it is not wrong for anyone to celebrate the symbolism of these court judgements in the struggle against domestic violence, we must be honest that this is not substantial justice. Why would anyone […]
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Pretty or beautiful is a subjective adjective and I’ve always thought I had a pretty face but not a pretty body. Until recently. My confidence spiked, and I’ve been regaling in all my sensuality. This year, however, I’ve been getting a lot of male attention especially on the streets and it has, in turn,
PATRIARCHY’S TIME IS UP BUT NO MATRIARCHY SVP Read More »
From 30, it has been changed to 33+ women. Before, the society would tell women at 30 their lives are over. We are old cargoes. We’re shriveled. Nobody wants us et cetera. NOW, it has been shifted to 33+ 🤣 Mais pourquoi ? Thank you mighty kings for giving us more
ARE OLDER WOMEN CRIMINALS? Read More »
When I was with this guy as a teenager/in my early twenties, where I drew the line was he hitting me. He never did hit me, but he messed me up on so many fronts. He messed up my self esteem, he manipulated me, he gaslit me into thinking I was crazy and undesirable, he
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There’s an unspoken societal rule that asks for women to either be Madonna or a whore. I recently realized there’s actually a psychological theorem around it: The Madonna-whore complex. Generally, women are supposed to be prudes and therefore deserving of respect, or very sexually attractive/active and don’t inherently deserve respect. Women can’t be both
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I will explain, as simple as possible, the difference between individualistic and systemic solution using myself as an example. I’m a feminist, a rad one at that, but the extent of its protection of me is still limited so much that it didn’t protect me from being harassed, or cat-called on the streets or
INDIVIDUALISTIC & SYSTEMIC SOLUTIONS Read More »
There should be the understanding that women don’t need to be nice, kind, decent, smart, strong, angelic, have each other’s back even, before we deserve equality. Women don’t have to love one another before we deserve equality, the fact that we are people is enough justification. We don’t have to prove anything. AT ALL. “Women
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In France, the feminists here have fought for the right of women to not be judged or known by their marital status. The argument is that a man is always MR (Monsieur), and you don’t have to know whether they’re married or not. Why should women have to make their marital status known then? And
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If it were up to me, marriage would have been disbanded until we have proper policies/ laws to protect women. Earlier on, I was listening to a certain woman narrating how her ex husband chopped her hands off and almost burnt her to death. What really annoys me is the fact that she’s been seeking
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Learn self-defense. Here we have a female soldier getting raped and locked in a casket and stripped naked and recorded. Have your own money, be popular, decenter men. Here we have Tiwa Savage still being recorded in a most vulnerable moment and for months, I watched her trying every means to get
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